(Sorry, this is an old post which is automatically translated from Dutch to (D) English by Google Translate/SDL)
In part 3 of this series over the characterizing of yourself on internet, either online personal surf, I go to set again further at the same time a number of tips and experiences yourself positive on the card, to understand the internet-card well.
Might personal surf new for you be, read Present then also even part 1 over Online Personal Surf – yourself on internet and part 2 with a continuation thereupon over Online Personal Surf (part 2).
Firstly I want want to return yet just on a beautiful definition and definition of personal surf on Carriertijger. nl. According to their is personal surf:
Yourself present as a brand at others, by which you depict positive and associates calls up..
You must thus difference take advantage in who you are through to make of your knowledge and experience and through the putting in of your personality. With this can your colleagues, friends, customers and employers let see who you are and for which your state. Especially now men fast can seek who you are and what you do (for instance via Wieowie. nl, can you almost no longer without a good profilering of yourself, or in every case a checked profilering.
They come then also on the abc for personal surf:
* Separately – you Dare to distinguish of the rest
* Trustworthy – Care for a constant factor on which men can build
* Congruent – Agreement in the things that you do
These count compete all also for online personal surf. In the previous parts, you wanted to come of this already much past. In the pieces saw your information over how you you must distinguish to respect of the rest, you saw how your agreement gets in the information that offered becomes and how a trustworthy radiation and professional radiation can be created.,
The advantage of internet is that we burst of the networks and the possibilities round these out to knit. Next that we our networks via sites as Hyves (informal, social) as via LinkedIn (centering, concise) or on comparable sites uitbereiden, can you yourself also characterize via networks of sites as Nujij and eKudos. They offer in such a way the possibility round next to the seeking and mail of nieuwsitems, interest groups on to set, by which you each other news easily can read, (and each other naturally vote can give). Also with this bring prevent you your name a stiff further in the internet world.
Yet weller be will the information than all that social media sites normally that you set must now everywhere on and must divide with friends, in 1 slap can divide. Her is meanwhile well an engelstalige tool for, namely Noserub, these have I self however not yet tested.
Otherwise you can find a beautiful survey of social media sites from the Netherlands you on Monlog.
Until end over digital networks have you also yet Twitter of which you fast once in a while heard have, I get well how you also this would be able to put in as online personal surf, but I find Twitter irritating and vague, happy am I not the only!
What concerned personal surf in its generality appeared there such other half soak ago an article over Putting Your Best Cyberface Forward by which they also enter into the letting see of you digital I, how present you yourself on the internet. Probably has the editing a Dutchman in service that my article Online Personal Surf – Present yourself on internet just read had;)
The article goes over the fact, that we actual every day already at profilering do, we want us always already distinguish. Do not be it through us work, is then the well through our behavior or even our appearance.
It goes around all the perception through others, how sees one us. Does this not become however on internet a to pieces with difficulty, first impressions become quite different than one you see, but clicks on the first result in Google, would think what you as you for instance on my name Tim Huijbers googled?
It stretch yet best difference in how one this takes, for according to Mark R. Leary (doctor Psychology) its there men that right look at what one want to see, which target group want you reach. Also its there men that just look at where she in want to be and let these points right see. For my feeling is a combi of both the best, use your strong sides and speak the target group at that you want reach.
Is it must go honestly be well with difficulty how far you in it, lie when you over particular knowledge and knowledge and when it is yet the truth (late stand credible)? There are men that join with all hypes, the newest hippe applicaties of Hyves put in, self the Matrix, Tom Cruise or beauty Queen Beyonce name, but what are she in reality?
Ups and downs to my opinion in honest in the things that your online says, does and writes. Naturally its positive experiences tremendously made much of and are enclosed is negative points a little bit, but that then also a part of your online personal surf, or impression management. It is also the intention there good out to see, to let see for which you stand and what you gladly does. How your men can help, wants help and with which this would can. A little bit over the top may fall then also, but there not over!
The article ends to fit with the tip your profilering per target group on, but actual you do this by itself. You most place after all your photograph in 3-delig do not seize set as a profile photograph on Hyves, you not your photograph with you as winning chess-champion on Lexa and your move certainly no coole beach photograph on your LinkedIn. Well has the article resemble in the idea that your relevance information must let see at the target group. Ups and downs thus selective in the information that you want to see and late this depend of the target group that it reads or the target for which it serves.
Until ends over the article is an amusing quote of Paris Hilton well nice. As see you that they rather over other men back itself characterizes then own qualities to use, although, perhaps is this well usual a (slechte).. quality of her:
“All you property of to Thu in life is go harden closed out with your friends, party and twice axis good”
Update 15/1/2007
Of Tom Schooled yet an interesting article found in which he the emphasis lays on the underestimating of yourself as brand in the market set and he has it with name over social media networks (as I up here also name).,.
